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I think what might actually be hard to game is teacher recommendations. After all these people have been with the kid for a long time and know what they can do.
by Broken_Hippo 4y ago
I think what might actually be hard to game is teacher recommendations. After all these people have been with the kid for a long time and know what they can do. They also tend to be distanced enough that they don't have to say good things about every kid.
When I was 11, I had a teacher lean over during class and tell me how much she didn't like me, that I was the laziest student she had ever had, and that she couldn't wait until the end of the year because she wouldn't have to see me any more. To be fair: I wasn't a horrible student, was usually quiet without many friends, and just wasn't at the point to handle 2-3 hours of homework, probably due to undiagnosed issues.
I learned that teachers don't always have your best interests at heart, and I couldn't trust any of them much. I couldn't imagine the stress of trying to impress teachers to the point of getting recommendations, and I can't imagine she'd have given me one and I probably would have been scared to ask the others after that. On the other hand, it also became quite clear that you could game the system a little if you got the teachers to like you.
Just because they don't have to say good things about every kid doesn't mean that all of them will say things that give a fair assessment, though a lot would try a little more than this woman did.
- foobiekr 4y agoI had a similar experience in sixth grade. Completely insane. On the other hand, it taught me early how life actually works.
- lordnacho 4y agoYeah this is something I thought about quite hard before I moved countries. I didn't want my kid to be at the mercy of some teacher who might not like him. So then I ended up where we have this one time test, which stresses the hell out of everyone. Luckily he did well on it, school decisions came out last week and he got what he wanted. I'm not actually sure which is better, part of why I thought maybe teacher recommendations would have been better was that my kid would undoubtedly get recommended if that were the system, he just happens to have that thing that teachers recognise. But even so he could have had a bad day and not made it in the system we actually live in.