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@ianai: The POSTER is talking about being under-prepared for integrating their emotions into their lives, and NOT in the "life goal" sense. "[I am a] broken pi
by ncr100 4y ago
@ianai: The POSTER is talking about being under-prepared for integrating their emotions into their lives, and NOT in the "life goal" sense.
"[I am a] broken pile of glass" != "[I need to hear about the] job market" kind of situation.
As I read their posting, it's more of a "help me develop my emotional intelligence."
- ianai 4y agoWhich still sounds pretty normal for a last year of phd. Freedom and autonomy from the burden await past the degree. Deep psychological work is going to take longer than a year, cost $$$$, could be fleeting, and clearly not going to finish the degree in a year. Or quit the program and start a new life. But I’d strongly advise OP first honestly discuss that with their mentors. Life absolutely will go on and the market will find a place for OPs work in either direction.
- ncr100 4y agoI see. Makes sense. And for me it's sad for me to see a person, the OP, being / complaining of overwhelmed by the tall wave of their goals competing with their significant emotional trauma .. their psyche is pretty unhappy.