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Take it from a serial dater male with great success on tinder/bumble.. the lives of many women is substantially worse than even guys that can't get a date. Unle

Take it from a serial dater male with great success on tinder/bumble.. the lives of many women is substantially worse than even guys that can't get a date. Unless you do a great job explaining the purpose of dating (courting?), There is a very high chance she'll simply become the temporary play thing of dozens of men. And being smart and well educated seems to have basically little to do with it.. I know many more married hair dressers than I do girls in tech. And beyond that... Many that ARE married are basically angry at life because they settled and are not sexually attracted to their husbands even. I almost thing men have it easier.. which you can verify for yourself if you look up depression stats and prescription stats.

amir734jj 4y ago
That's an another angle I haven't thought about. Thank you for sharing.
- uwagar 4y ago
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  - amir734jj 4y ago
    Basically yes.
  - anovikov 4y ago
    It only depends on how good advances in antibiotics will be...
  - nicenewtemp84 4y ago
    I was not saying that. I was saying that just having a girl doesn't automatically put things on easy mode for her (or you as a parent) because girls have their own set of challenges they didn't face just a generation or two ago.
    - uwagar 4y ago
      > becoming a play thing of dozens of men. sounds like a whore to me.
kevin_thibedeau 4y ago
> become the temporary play thing of dozens of men That's a natural result of only selecting for the 20% who know they can play the field. The "I deserve a tall handsome prince with a high income" types are all in competition with each other for a limited resource. Men aren't to blame for that.
- JesusLovesEwe 4y ago
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raincom 4y ago
majority of wealthy wives are on anti-depressants, according to a pharmacist friend who works in a wealthy zip code in North NJ.
- exolymph 4y ago
  May or may not be true in general, but there's an obvious selection effect on who your pharmacist friend is exposed to.
uptownfunk 4y ago
Frightening to think of as a parent

amir734jj 4y ago

That's an another angle I haven't thought about. Thank you for sharing.

uwagar 4y ago
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- amir734jj 4y ago
  Basically yes.
- anovikov 4y ago
  It only depends on how good advances in antibiotics will be...
- nicenewtemp84 4y ago
  I was not saying that. I was saying that just having a girl doesn't automatically put things on easy mode for her (or you as a parent) because girls have their own set of challenges they didn't face just a generation or two ago.
  - uwagar 4y ago
    > becoming a play thing of dozens of men. sounds like a whore to me.

kevin_thibedeau 4y ago

> become the temporary play thing of dozens of men That's a natural result of only selecting for the 20% who know they can play the field. The "I deserve a tall handsome prince with a high income" types are all in competition with each other for a limited resource. Men aren't to blame for that.

JesusLovesEwe 4y ago
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raincom 4y ago

majority of wealthy wives are on anti-depressants, according to a pharmacist friend who works in a wealthy zip code in North NJ.

exolymph 4y ago
May or may not be true in general, but there's an obvious selection effect on who your pharmacist friend is exposed to.

uptownfunk 4y ago

Frightening to think of as a parent