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That’s a pretty jaded response to something you clearly can’t quantify. I’m hesitant to give relationship advice on the internet because every relationship is
by kasey_junk 4y ago
That’s a pretty jaded response to something you clearly can’t quantify.
I’m hesitant to give relationship advice on the internet because every relationship is different but if I did “don’t love yourself by proxy” would seem pretty close to universal.
- gardenhedge 4y agoIt's not jaded it's just realistic. I can't think of anything other than naivety that would make someone believe that either partner in a most relationships would be happy to get divorced because they would be happy for the other person. I can't quantify that most people don't do handstands after they get home from work.. but I also know it doesn't happen. I am not talking about “don’t love yourself by proxy”.
- tptacek 4y agoThey didn't say they'd be happy to get divorced. They said the opposite thing, in fact. They said they'd be happier in the long run, which is true of most divorces, and all of the healthy ones.