I'm more-or-less with you on a lot of those, but this one stands out: > 2. pay attention in class, or not I would usually /choose/ to pay attention in class,

I'm more-or-less with you on a lot of those, but this one stands out: > 2. pay attention in class, or not I would usually /choose/ to pay attention in class, but also I seldom paid attention in class. I envy those who have the ability to pay attention to something just because they decide to.