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Totally agree. I'm probably forgetting part of it, since with the second one, things are way different, they play together and the younger learns to play by him
by Fire-Dragon-DoL 4y ago
Totally agree. I'm probably forgetting part of it, since with the second one, things are way different, they play together and the younger learns to play by himself way faster, thanks to his "teacher" (the sibling)
- seanmcdirmid 4y agoYa, we are missing amortization benefits by not having a second kid :(
- Fire-Dragon-DoL 4y agoKinda, you get a lot of benefits when the children are awake, but they always nap out of sync, so you never, ever get alone time with your partner for a couple of years until they both go to school, which is painful. When the older hits 4 years old, there are a lot of games you can start playing with them but the younger one might drastically limit that (for example, they destroy board games, while the 4 years one is very into them!) On the upside, they melt my heart when I see them playing together