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If a friend can't pay you back for legitimate reasons, which I admit are subjective, you shouldn't let it affect your friendship. If it does it says more about
by themitigating 4y ago
If a friend can't pay you back for legitimate reasons, which I admit are subjective, you shouldn't let it affect your friendship.
If it does it says more about you than the friend
- luxuryballs 4y agoyou’d be surprised, better just to give them the money and if they pay you back it’s just a bonus
- SkyBelow 4y agoIt is also possible that the inability to pay back would negative effect the friend's ability to maintain the friendship. Between feeling they let the loaner down, or feeling guilty they couldn't repay it. Even if the loaner set no expectations, it could create enough negativity to sour the friendship. This doesn't have to be logical or rational, it could be an entirely irrational emotional reaction.