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I have friends like this. They fought super hard and sacrificed a lot to get themselves and their families where they are. Super kind and generous people. Getti
by progman32 4y ago
I have friends like this. They fought super hard and sacrificed a lot to get themselves and their families where they are. Super kind and generous people. Getting unsolicited gifts like this feels like a big slap in the face of what they've accomplished. I'm not saying they're right to feel this way. But it's something that needs to be considered.
- matwood 4y agoIt's not really unsolicited if the friend just told you they can't pay their rent. If they were the stoic you write about, they wouldn't have mentioned it at all.
- mrguyorama 4y agoIf someone is legitimately trying to help you, and it makes you feel bad, what you need is therapy, not someone else ignoring your struggles.