It’s an attractor some social circles get stuck in. All my friends and all my friends’ friends are on dating apps, and all the new couples I’ve known since coll

It’s an attractor some social circles get stuck in. All my friends and all my friends’ friends are on dating apps, and all the new couples I’ve known since college met on dating apps. It is weird, and nobody I’ve talked to likes dating apps, but no one individual can really break the equilibrium.