I really hate being an employee in EU. I don't want to be an employee. I want the flexibility and lack of those crappy "what do you want to do in 5 years" type

I really hate being an employee in EU. I don't want to be an employee. I want the flexibility and lack of those crappy "what do you want to do in 5 years" type of convos. I know what I want to be and it's none of my client's business. I currently have to lie to my employer about "what I want to be", because there's an expectation. What if my employer doesn't like the fact that I want to show off my feet on OnlyFans in 5 years, instead of being their "lead architect"? I have literally moved out of Ireland to avoid being an employee.