> - I can't think of a third one To help out on that: Try to understand how an INTJ personality works [e.g. 1, 2]. (The OP seems to be one judging by what was

> - I can't think of a third one To help out on that: Try to understand how an INTJ personality works [e.g. 1, 2]. (The OP seems to be one judging by what was written here). Just imagine there are people who hate nothing more than "things that are wrong". But almost everything created by humans is very, very wrong, on all possible axes (that's actually the definition of "the human factor", imperfection). Also those people hate it when others tell them how to do things; especially as the people who think that they can tell others how to do something are almost anytime wrong anyway. (Most people are wrong with almost everything in life because most humans aren't able to think logically and just repeat something they saw somewhere without ever thinking about it; humans are apes, never forget). For an INTJ there is no option to "stop thinking" about the wrong things that surround them. There is only "fix it or die trying". For the OP this would mean that all that they can do is to leave the current place for one where things are less wrong. Otherwise the current situation could indeed kill them in the long run, or at least completely destroy their mental health (something that would take many years to fix again if even possible). (There is btw. a salient overlap between the percentages of occurrence and personal traits of INTJ personalities and personal traits associated with people on the autism spectrum, at least when it comes to the high-functioning "light" autism variants. Autistic people generally dislike "change". That could be the reason why it's so difficult for people with such personality traits to just leave a place that has obvious negative effects on them. But that's only my personal theory at the moment; never tried to investigate whether there is research that could confirm this relation). [1] https://www.16personalities.com/intj-personality https://www.16personalities.com/intj-personality [2] https://www.truity.com/personality-type/INTJ https://www.truity.com/personality-type/INTJ