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> since dating is about manipulating the other side to love one. Sounds like you're doing it wrong.

• q-big 4y ago
  > Sounds like you're doing it wrong. Then I have to conclude that a lot of dating advice that one finds is plainly wrong: "show off your best side" is for example an instance of "manipulate the other person to believe that you are of higher value than you actually are (and thus a relationship with you is a better deal than it actually is)".
  • melagonster 4y ago
    you just need to keep this until Death coming.
  • GrinningFool 4y ago
    I'd agree that it's wrong. If the person you're dating isn't comfortable with you being yourself, then it's probably the wrong person. Presenting a fake impression of yourself to convince them to stick around seems like a poor foundation for a relationship.