Once again, I'll stick my neck out with the contrarian pov. Disclosure: I'm divorced and I pay child support. 1) Kids cost money to raise. Nowhere is that refl

Once again, I'll stick my neck out with the contrarian pov. Disclosure: I'm divorced and I pay child support. 1) Kids cost money to raise. Nowhere is that reflected in the author's analysis. Curious... 2) It's difficult to put a price on being free from a shitty relationship. I wasn't very happy about child support, but I'd probably have paid 3x to have You Know Who out of my life. 3a) Just because some people pull this shit with premeditated malice, doesn't mean it's particularly common. 3b) No matter how many giant red flags, you're never going to convince someone that the person they're about to marry is capable of fucking them over. It's as big a waste of time as comments on HN ;)