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OK let's see if you are qualified to have these opinions. 1. Have you dated women, as a man? 2. Are you successful in dating women which can be measured by
by isthisthingon99 4y ago
OK let's see if you are qualified to have these opinions.
1. Have you dated women, as a man?
2. Are you successful in dating women which can be measured by staying power? Could you message a woman today you haven't seen in 6 months and arrange a date?
3. If I asked you to go and get a date today from a woman previously unknown to you, could you do it?
If you can answer yes to all these questions, then your opinion is valuable.
- Zigurd 4y ago1. Yes, but I'm not sure what you mean by "as a man." Why do you make that distinction? Why does it matter to you? 2. yes, two days ago. But I'm baffled by your criteria here. I'm not trying to qualify as a guru. The opposite really. Stop listening to dating gurus. 3. I have done, but I wonder why you would ask since it would make no difference. You are barking up the wrong tree. You still don't get it: There is no improvement you can make. Women date fat men. Women date nerdy men. Women date slobs. Women will pay for the date if you are broke. Women will listen to 2.4 seconds of you mansplaining why you have not had any luck despite a crisply made bed and however much you bench press and your BMW and decide you don't get it. That is what's wrong.
- isthisthingon99 4y agoYou're clearly reading things I haven't said.
- nradov 4y agoThis comment is just totally disconnected from reality. Sure, a minority of women are willing to date fat slobs. But all else being equal most women prefer a man who's in good shape, clean, and well groomed. Of course, that won't entirely compensate for being boring or having terrible social skills.