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Internet for real is killing balls, I like to go out and go crazy a bit at bars at concerts etc and would just like to forget it the next day, instead there are

Internet for real is killing balls, I like to go out and go crazy a bit at bars at concerts etc and would just like to forget it the next day, instead there are people always with these fucking phones at hand making pics and videos, starting from some components of my group with the tags etc, had to delete all socials I have to let them do the reporters and live my life without being aware of what they publish

deeth_starr_v 4y ago
- soupfordummies 4y ago
  Getting a little drunk at a bar or a concert once in a while is a problem?
  - deleted 4y ago
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  - AlwaysRock 4y ago
    > I like to go out and go crazy sounds like more than a little drunk. I liked to go get drunk and do stupid shit too but I stopped after I realized I was at an age where doing stupid shit was potentially harmful to my wellbeing and welfare and not worth the fun it provided in the moment.
    - animal_spirits 4y ago
      If someone is doing something and then immediately wanting to forget about it, there might be a reason why they want to forget about it, probably because it’s unhealthy for themselves and for others
      - lrvick 4y ago
        Or maybe because it is fun in the moment 9/10 times but that 1/10 it is not makes you want the ability to forget by default and compartmentalize that part of your life.
        lnxg33k1 4y ago
        Or just you want to have fun when it’s time to have fun and just have a work setup when it’s work environment, family setup when it’s family environment etc. yeah compartmentalise when it’s time :D
- lnxg33k1 4y ago
- jjulius 4y ago
  Judge not, lest ye...
  - Zuider 4y ago
    ..be doxxed on the internet.
- Adraghast 4y ago
  I suspect if they wanted your advice they would have asked for it.
- lrvick 4y ago
  Some of are perfectly capable of being dumbasses in public perfectly sober and still would prefer it not be documented for internet stranger ridicule if it is not harming anyone.
  - lnxg33k1 4y ago
    I am also capable of that, perfectly able of go crazy when sober too, and still I don’t want to think about it in other settings, I disagree with other people that say that I want to forget about it because I am ashamed, I just want to have fun when I have to have fun and then live seriously or not crazy when I don’t have to or there are other backgrounds
soupfordummies 4y ago
I get your point and I wholeheartedly agree… but I’m also having a chuckle thinking that you mean you like to just go nude to concerts and bars with your friends.
- lnxg33k1 4y ago
  Yeah :D was just trying to say that people with phone are killing all sort of fun / life, in any context
- amelius 4y ago
  I would be in favor of nude concerts. Where, of course the artists should follow the dress code.
  - lnxg33k1 4y ago
    As Italian: then go to maneskin :D
    - amelius 4y ago
      Of course these things are possible only in Europe ...
      - lnxg33k1 4y ago
        No you know if you’re American then I am going to cheer you, the maneskin are Italian, but the first time I saw the singer topless was in US at coachella, so while the soul is Italian, the place is US :D
giantg2 4y ago
In theory, it's not them recording it, but rather the reactions of society that cause the problems. Banning discrimination based on out of work activity might be a good remedy.
- lnxg33k1 4y ago
  Yes but it’s unlikely to have that kind of cultural change during my lifetime so the most realistic solution right now is just to avoid reporters, on the other end I don’t really see the value of being published to be seen by strangers in any case, when I’m enjoying human in person company
amelius 4y ago
Since it seems we can't actually own our smartphones anyway, perhaps beaches and concerts should be geofenced.
- lrvick 4y ago
  And make it socially acceptable to destroy any phone you see in such a setting.
  - amelius 4y ago
    The geofence will automatically shame you on social media, if you bring your phone.
valarauko 4y ago
While I don't go quite crazy at the bar or club, I'm quite annoyed that my friends only remember to take pictures at the end of the night when everybody looks at their worst - to post to social media.
dougmwne 4y ago
I seriously feel bad for the youths these days. I had so many hijinks and antics partying when I was young. Now that would all be on social. A real panopticon we live in now.
MisterTea 4y ago
> instead there are people always with these fucking phones at hand making pics and videos A few friends and I went to go see Taake at a little venue in Greenpoint, NYC years back. We wanted to be in the pit so we moved towards the front and it was clogged with what some call "poser hipsters." They just stood there texting, playing on social media or filming the whole time wasting venue space. It was infuriated as these idiots just stood there staring and tapping at their phones while a band was playing. So we decided to make life miserable because it was the pit after all. So we started up the pit and explicitly threw each other into the human tripods for laughs. After we knocked those phone zombies around a few times they got the hint and moved towards the back. And you could even see some were miffed and gave us dirty looks but hey, this is a metal show so FUCK OFF AND DIE! We had a blast and there was just one pic taken of a friend who managed to grab a selfie with Hoest.

deeth_starr_v 4y ago

soupfordummies 4y ago
Getting a little drunk at a bar or a concert once in a while is a problem?
- deleted 4y ago
  [deleted]
- AlwaysRock 4y ago
  > I like to go out and go crazy sounds like more than a little drunk. I liked to go get drunk and do stupid shit too but I stopped after I realized I was at an age where doing stupid shit was potentially harmful to my wellbeing and welfare and not worth the fun it provided in the moment.
  - animal_spirits 4y ago
    If someone is doing something and then immediately wanting to forget about it, there might be a reason why they want to forget about it, probably because it’s unhealthy for themselves and for others
    - lrvick 4y ago
      Or maybe because it is fun in the moment 9/10 times but that 1/10 it is not makes you want the ability to forget by default and compartmentalize that part of your life.
      - lnxg33k1 4y ago
        Or just you want to have fun when it’s time to have fun and just have a work setup when it’s work environment, family setup when it’s family environment etc. yeah compartmentalise when it’s time :D
lnxg33k1 4y ago
jjulius 4y ago
Judge not, lest ye...
- Zuider 4y ago
  ..be doxxed on the internet.
Adraghast 4y ago
I suspect if they wanted your advice they would have asked for it.
lrvick 4y ago
Some of are perfectly capable of being dumbasses in public perfectly sober and still would prefer it not be documented for internet stranger ridicule if it is not harming anyone.
- lnxg33k1 4y ago
  I am also capable of that, perfectly able of go crazy when sober too, and still I don’t want to think about it in other settings, I disagree with other people that say that I want to forget about it because I am ashamed, I just want to have fun when I have to have fun and then live seriously or not crazy when I don’t have to or there are other backgrounds

soupfordummies 4y ago

I get your point and I wholeheartedly agree… but I’m also having a chuckle thinking that you mean you like to just go nude to concerts and bars with your friends.

lnxg33k1 4y ago
Yeah :D was just trying to say that people with phone are killing all sort of fun / life, in any context
amelius 4y ago
I would be in favor of nude concerts. Where, of course the artists should follow the dress code.
- lnxg33k1 4y ago
  As Italian: then go to maneskin :D
  - amelius 4y ago
    Of course these things are possible only in Europe ...
    - lnxg33k1 4y ago
      No you know if you’re American then I am going to cheer you, the maneskin are Italian, but the first time I saw the singer topless was in US at coachella, so while the soul is Italian, the place is US :D

giantg2 4y ago

In theory, it's not them recording it, but rather the reactions of society that cause the problems. Banning discrimination based on out of work activity might be a good remedy.

lnxg33k1 4y ago
Yes but it’s unlikely to have that kind of cultural change during my lifetime so the most realistic solution right now is just to avoid reporters, on the other end I don’t really see the value of being published to be seen by strangers in any case, when I’m enjoying human in person company

amelius 4y ago

Since it seems we can't actually own our smartphones anyway, perhaps beaches and concerts should be geofenced.

lrvick 4y ago
And make it socially acceptable to destroy any phone you see in such a setting.
- amelius 4y ago
  The geofence will automatically shame you on social media, if you bring your phone.

valarauko 4y ago

While I don't go quite crazy at the bar or club, I'm quite annoyed that my friends only remember to take pictures at the end of the night when everybody looks at their worst - to post to social media.

dougmwne 4y ago

I seriously feel bad for the youths these days. I had so many hijinks and antics partying when I was young. Now that would all be on social. A real panopticon we live in now.

MisterTea 4y ago

> instead there are people always with these fucking phones at hand making pics and videos A few friends and I went to go see Taake at a little venue in Greenpoint, NYC years back. We wanted to be in the pit so we moved towards the front and it was clogged with what some call "poser hipsters." They just stood there texting, playing on social media or filming the whole time wasting venue space. It was infuriated as these idiots just stood there staring and tapping at their phones while a band was playing. So we decided to make life miserable because it was the pit after all. So we started up the pit and explicitly threw each other into the human tripods for laughs. After we knocked those phone zombies around a few times they got the hint and moved towards the back. And you could even see some were miffed and gave us dirty looks but hey, this is a metal show so FUCK OFF AND DIE! We had a blast and there was just one pic taken of a friend who managed to grab a selfie with Hoest.