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> This is not appeasing bullies [...] It is though. It's a way of saying "maybe I'm wrong, and we're going to act this out by pretending that I am". This means
by krageon 4y ago
> This is not appeasing bullies [...]
It is though. It's a way of saying "maybe I'm wrong, and we're going to act this out by pretending that I am". This means that whoever put pressure on you gets their way, which motivates them to do it again. That is toxic.
- lcnPylGDnU4H9OF 4y ago> This means that whoever put pressure on you gets their way, which motivates them to do it again. While I don't think this is a ridiculous take, it is a rather uncharitable one. I'd think the only reasonable time this should be believed is after it has shown itself to be a pattern.