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I think you did the right thing. But still, I think it could also be used as moment for education. For the boyfriend: “You have 0 control over where the image e
by teekert 4y ago
I think you did the right thing. But still, I think it could also be used as moment for education. For the boyfriend: “You have 0 control over where the image ends up when you send it to someone, perhaps even before you send it.” For the Daughter: “You are in possession of nude material from a minor. This carries some risk, you should be aware of it.”
But I get the struggle, I also turned of logging in my AdGuard home instance, at least for my wife’s phone. But it was also a lesson for her when I jokingly told here the website she was on right now… The ISP and Google probably know this too. And, I can find it in my Router without AdGuard, and that Router can be hacked. It’s also a good time for education imho.
Modern tech is so interesting. When I can’t get a hold of my wife I sometimes find myself checking the hallway’s motion sensor, seeing it just registered movement, the unify network reports to Home Assistant that indeed her phone is connected right now. Ah, gas usage, bathroom lighting and moisture sensors indicate she’s taking a shower (boy it seems to be a long one, 0.4 m3 of gas!). I’ll just wait 10 min and if she doesn’t pick up I’ll flash some lights or let the Sonos speak: “Pick up your Phone”. Yeah it’s pretty creepy but sometimes I don’t even think about it… But writing it down like this I could write a “state” sensor for my wife that could, with high probability, tell me what she’s doing and log it.
- tibbydudeza 4y agoWe had that talk about the Internet with my kids due to some incidents at school and that made the news but fortunately NOT (oops corrected) involving them - racist remarks on Facebook - oversharing of details - stalking - posting bikini photos on Insta - accepting friend requests from only people they know - privacy settings - cover your laptop camera - don't click links you receive - spam - the usual. Friends of ours came to me how to deal with nude photos taken by their underage daughter sent to her boyfriend - told them to contact the parents and go to his house immediately - watch him in the act of deleting the photos. Fortunately he was not stupid to share it with his mates. Also told them kids do stuff without thinking through the consequences and not to be too hard on them - think she only lost phone privilege's for a week. I do have a IP camera in the house but it is angled and to watch our parrot when he is on top his cage and alert us if he decides to take a walk.
- matwood 4y agoThere's a saying 'don't count the condoms in the box.' You're going to drive yourself nuts if you don't trust your partner.