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This whole comment is, I hope somewhat in jest and pretty misogynistic. You assume that I sleep around (which is not true). You also imply that a woman having l
by actfrench 4y ago
This whole comment is, I hope somewhat in jest and pretty misogynistic. You assume that I sleep around (which is not true). You also imply that a woman having lots of sex is a bad thing. If a woman wants to be sexually active, I do not judge her for that any more than I would judge a man who wants to be sexual with many women.
Even though I am well-educated and run my own company, you assume that I would not post this out of curiosity, but only because I seem to think marrying rich is the best course to financial abundance. I have no idea where you got this from my post. However, if I wanted to marry rich, I could easily find a rich guy on a dating app or through a matchmaker. I certainly don't need to go through Hacker News.
No, I did not sleep with 120 men and this was actually a great disappointment to many of them. I want to take time to get to know them.
This comment is particularly intriguing to me since the other large critiques of this post are that my desire to have kids seems too desperate and people would be turned off by that. So, I guess that wouldn't be so effective in "finding a rich husband.
I do not care about finding a rich husband. I've dated plenty of rich guys and that did not attract me. I noticed that men often see women as gold diggers, by the way. Personally, I would prefer to be financially independent and not reliant on someone else's income. My friends who are married to lovely guys say that I SHOULD add rich to my list.
If I just cared about finding a rich husband, I could have found someone a long, long time ago. But I want love, tenderness and intimacy. I can get money through a good career. A much better pathway that I have available to me as a woman in the 21st century.
I thought that hacker news was here to help people with hacks. I've presented personally one of the biggest problems faced especially by successful women in their early forties to see if people can come up with good solutions, not only to benefit me, but benefit other women.
Last but not least, I really think you would do well to inform yourself about women's reproductive health as women have healthy babies in their forties all the time.
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/15/parenting/pregnancy/baby-after-40.html https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/15/parenting/pregnancy/baby-...
- thirtyfivecent 4y ago
- throw220702 4y agoWhy would a man be less interested in someone because his body learns that she can cause a unique pleasant sensation?
- thirtyfivecent 4y agoHis own hand or 5 dollars worth of silicon can create that "unique" pleasant sensation. You need to provide a better argument than that for me to talk to you about this. A man is exausted and jaded for days after sex, prolactin release, the refractory period etc. Its natures way to limit an alphas ability to spread his seed in the population. Sexual energy and Semen Retention can transform a man totally if he has the discipline not to release it for a couple of seconds of pleasure. He can still have sex once he has become grounded in the practice and his brain has undergone changes which usually takes 6-12 months, then he just has to avoid orgasms to keep the benefits.