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Thank you! It is really strange to me that a woman talking about dating as a means to find a partner and children is such a "turn-off" and expresses "an ulterio

• throw220702 4y ago
  There's a more charitable reading of the proper motive which aligns what you want: To be wanted for some essential thing about yourself.
• Stalecelin 4y ago
  Because in most non-Western countries it’s assumed that even a marriage solely meant for making children will never dissolve. Let alone the western divorce courts which are prone to leaving the man with no real access to their kids and 18 years of financial obligation to a woman who hates him. Divorce is how vast majority of western marriages end up in our modern times. If you don’t internalise this simple reality you will not understand why those men behave towards you the way they do.