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Well there are a number of ways to show some of those in your profile. From your job, your photos, the activities you are doing in those photos, the people with

Well there are a number of ways to show some of those in your profile. From your job, your photos, the activities you are doing in those photos, the people with you in them, your bio.... you can obviously lie about a number of them, but that probably would lead to a number of unsucessful first dates. On the other hand a weaker profile might lead to less dates, but if you have those skills in real life it might lead to a number of succesful dates.

vintermann 4y ago
When attributes people desire in something are hard to judge, but there are some secondary attributes which are easier to judge, then they often go for the latter. To at least get "something". The less willing they are to do that, the less willing they are to participate in the first place. There are some really nasty "market for lemons" effects in online dating, and it seems clear to me it really makes things harder for young people. I am not young myself, and have no need for online dating, so this is how it looks to me from the outside. Your repeated dismissal of these experiences in this thread comes off to me as a bit callous.