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Do people genuinely like the tongue? I mean there's pleasure in biting lips but tongue to tongue don't bring feelings to me?

wincy 4y ago
Hah tongue is the best part. As much tongue as possible, please.
- SemanticStrengh 4y ago
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switch007 4y ago
Not to get too detailed but the tongue to tongue action is a kind of simulation of what you might do with your tongue shortly after kissing, which makes it a kind of preview. For me, anyway!
sergiomattei 4y ago
Yes, as long as it’s not too fast and not too often. There’s a lot more subtlety and feeling to the lips — very sensitive, so you’re right, it tends to feel better.
selfhifive 4y ago
It's not pleasurable if any one of the two is dehydrated and has a dry tongue.
gverrilla 4y ago
each person is different. there's people who don't like kissing so much, or like it with no tongue best. it's all part of the game: mutual communication about pleasure
kadoban 4y ago
A little bit of tip of tongue touching is genuinely nice. Full on "here's all my tongue" kissing generally isn't, should probably only be used to _briefly_ punctuate some related action or feeling.
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bsnal 4y ago
The same happens to me. The tongue doesn’t do anything at all for me. All of my girlfriends seemed to like it though. This is contrary to what the article says, but I understand that every person is a world… which is why looking at kissing scientifically makes little sense to me. Just try things and see what works for both of you (and don’t neglect doing things that don’t work for you if they seem to work for the other person, of course)
- holoduke 4y ago
  But seriously. Don't you get aroused when you get the woman into a aroused state? I definitely get. There is nothing more satisfying when you can make the woman want for more. The game of teasing. You play, you stop. She wants more and more till it's unstoppable.
  - bsnal 4y ago
    Yes, that’s true. Even if you don’t enjoy something, seeing your partner aroused by it is arousing by itself. It’s a feedback loop basically.
    - SemanticStrengh 4y ago
      great analysis

wincy 4y ago

Hah tongue is the best part. As much tongue as possible, please.

SemanticStrengh 4y ago

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switch007 4y ago

Not to get too detailed but the tongue to tongue action is a kind of simulation of what you might do with your tongue shortly after kissing, which makes it a kind of preview. For me, anyway!

sergiomattei 4y ago

Yes, as long as it’s not too fast and not too often. There’s a lot more subtlety and feeling to the lips — very sensitive, so you’re right, it tends to feel better.

selfhifive 4y ago

It's not pleasurable if any one of the two is dehydrated and has a dry tongue.

gverrilla 4y ago

each person is different. there's people who don't like kissing so much, or like it with no tongue best. it's all part of the game: mutual communication about pleasure

kadoban 4y ago

A little bit of tip of tongue touching is genuinely nice. Full on "here's all my tongue" kissing generally isn't, should probably only be used to _briefly_ punctuate some related action or feeling.

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bsnal 4y ago

The same happens to me. The tongue doesn’t do anything at all for me. All of my girlfriends seemed to like it though. This is contrary to what the article says, but I understand that every person is a world… which is why looking at kissing scientifically makes little sense to me. Just try things and see what works for both of you (and don’t neglect doing things that don’t work for you if they seem to work for the other person, of course)

holoduke 4y ago
But seriously. Don't you get aroused when you get the woman into a aroused state? I definitely get. There is nothing more satisfying when you can make the woman want for more. The game of teasing. You play, you stop. She wants more and more till it's unstoppable.
- bsnal 4y ago
  Yes, that’s true. Even if you don’t enjoy something, seeing your partner aroused by it is arousing by itself. It’s a feedback loop basically.
  - SemanticStrengh 4y ago
    great analysis