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4) old enough to be the father of those I consider Yeah this is the real problem. Sure everyone wants to date 20 year old models, but you have to be special to

by rr808 4y ago

4) old enough to be the father of those I consider Yeah this is the real problem. Sure everyone wants to date 20 year old models, but you have to be special to do this. You really would have a lot more than no success with people your own age.

pengaru 4y ago
> Sure everyone wants to date 20 year old models This is conflating fucking with dating.
- jazzythom 4y ago
  I instantly fall in love with someone I sleep with. In fact I make a connection to any girl I deem pretty that makes eye contact on the subway. I feel a little hurt when they get off the train without saying goodbye
derbOac 4y ago
An aside, but not everyone wants to date 20 year old models.
- shahar2k 4y ago
  as someone who has dated a 20 year old (I was in my early 30's at the time) and met many others her age through social situations... most 20 year olds are just kids still, something I felt at the time and moreso these days... my tastes though really heavily lean towards maturity, it was a weird coincidence we even got into a relationship
- seydor 4y ago
  And not all 20 y o are models. People with little romantic experience tend to fit better with younger women because women of the same age generally have more romantic experience
XorNot 4y ago
> Sure everyone wants to date 20 year old models No they really don't. This is an idea pushed by sociopaths who are somewhere between trash and downright dangerous. They can't date older women because older women spot their bullshit a mile away and steer clear.
- aortega 4y ago
  >They can't date older women because older women spot their bullshit a mile away and steer clear. I think you should stop demonizing men's natural sexual preferences. Key word here is natural, we don't choose what we like. Nature choose for us, and young women are better at having children. Same reason young girls choose tall, rich men, because they are better at surviving and have more resources for raising children. Nature maximizes reproduction and that's what we like.
  - Talanes 4y ago
    We don't know what the default state of human attraction is because we don't have access to a control population of human beings without the same shared societal history of the rest of us. Which is to say, it's incorrect to broaden your personal attractions to all men, and especially incorrect to try and couch it in some argument of biological naturalism.
    - yitr 4y ago
      if you had to guess, what do you think people in that control group would be attracted to?
    - auggierose 4y ago
      Not assuming either point of view here, but just because you cannot run an experiment, doesn't mean that the result of the experiment will be negative. So you don't know if GP is incorrect or not.
    - LambdaComplex 4y ago
      Well, I'm certainly not gonna go ask the Sentinelese about their dating preferences
starkd 4y ago
- fartcannon 4y ago
  What song is that? What came to my mind was 'If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life' by Jimmy Soul which is a doo-wop song you couldn't write anymore.
  - starkd 4y ago
    I don't remember and can't seem to find it. I remember people talking about the song more than the song itself, so it would be hard to recognize it. But the Jimmy Soul one makes the point well enough: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EqFVWzOfN8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EqFVWzOfN8
- paleotrope 4y ago
  If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife, so for my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you.
  - lurquer 4y ago
    Great song… The unspoken happy secret behind that point of view is that the ugly girl who loves you will become, in your eyes, the most beautiful woman in the world.
    - denton-scratch 4y ago
      That is true; which is why it's a lie to say that when she leaves you, you won't mind. Country music lyrics aren't a good basis for a philosophy of life.
- bambax 4y ago
  > Reminds me of a famous country music song I once heard that goes "pretty girls are nothing but trouble. Date an ugly one". There's this one: Always marry an ugly girl That's the only kind She'll never ever leave you And if she does you won't mind

by rr808 4y ago

pengaru 4y ago

> Sure everyone wants to date 20 year old models This is conflating fucking with dating.

jazzythom 4y ago
I instantly fall in love with someone I sleep with. In fact I make a connection to any girl I deem pretty that makes eye contact on the subway. I feel a little hurt when they get off the train without saying goodbye

derbOac 4y ago

An aside, but not everyone wants to date 20 year old models.

shahar2k 4y ago
as someone who has dated a 20 year old (I was in my early 30's at the time) and met many others her age through social situations... most 20 year olds are just kids still, something I felt at the time and moreso these days... my tastes though really heavily lean towards maturity, it was a weird coincidence we even got into a relationship
seydor 4y ago
And not all 20 y o are models. People with little romantic experience tend to fit better with younger women because women of the same age generally have more romantic experience

XorNot 4y ago

> Sure everyone wants to date 20 year old models No they really don't. This is an idea pushed by sociopaths who are somewhere between trash and downright dangerous. They can't date older women because older women spot their bullshit a mile away and steer clear.

aortega 4y ago
>They can't date older women because older women spot their bullshit a mile away and steer clear. I think you should stop demonizing men's natural sexual preferences. Key word here is natural, we don't choose what we like. Nature choose for us, and young women are better at having children. Same reason young girls choose tall, rich men, because they are better at surviving and have more resources for raising children. Nature maximizes reproduction and that's what we like.
- Talanes 4y ago
  We don't know what the default state of human attraction is because we don't have access to a control population of human beings without the same shared societal history of the rest of us. Which is to say, it's incorrect to broaden your personal attractions to all men, and especially incorrect to try and couch it in some argument of biological naturalism.
  - yitr 4y ago
    if you had to guess, what do you think people in that control group would be attracted to?
  - auggierose 4y ago
    Not assuming either point of view here, but just because you cannot run an experiment, doesn't mean that the result of the experiment will be negative. So you don't know if GP is incorrect or not.
  - LambdaComplex 4y ago
    Well, I'm certainly not gonna go ask the Sentinelese about their dating preferences

starkd 4y ago

fartcannon 4y ago
What song is that? What came to my mind was 'If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life' by Jimmy Soul which is a doo-wop song you couldn't write anymore.
- starkd 4y ago
  I don't remember and can't seem to find it. I remember people talking about the song more than the song itself, so it would be hard to recognize it. But the Jimmy Soul one makes the point well enough: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EqFVWzOfN8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EqFVWzOfN8
paleotrope 4y ago
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife, so for my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you.
- lurquer 4y ago
  Great song… The unspoken happy secret behind that point of view is that the ugly girl who loves you will become, in your eyes, the most beautiful woman in the world.
  - denton-scratch 4y ago
    That is true; which is why it's a lie to say that when she leaves you, you won't mind. Country music lyrics aren't a good basis for a philosophy of life.
bambax 4y ago
> Reminds me of a famous country music song I once heard that goes "pretty girls are nothing but trouble. Date an ugly one". There's this one: Always marry an ugly girl That's the only kind She'll never ever leave you And if she does you won't mind