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Relationships are important, but this importance varies from person to person. What would break one (long absence of such) is a negligible detail for another. I
by saiya-jin 5y ago
Relationships are important, but this importance varies from person to person. What would break one (long absence of such) is a negligible detail for another. Its true that most folks are wired for some form of them, but some actually thrive in their absence and focus their energy easier towards their goals.
I personally am somewhere in between. I can handle loneliness remarkably well, way better than most if not all people I know closely (and this allowed me to do hard very positive actions in life), but that doesn't prevent me from enjoying occasional family or friends reunion. But I don't thrive on them and I am not sad/depressed when lacking them. I love my family just to be clear and especially my parents, very little to complain about.
For example serious adventures can fill this hole more than nicely. But now my kids are doing their best and the hole is overflowing a bit.
- jimbokun 5y agoThis sounds like your personal anecdotal experience at a specific stage in your life, whereas the study covered many people over a decades long time frame.
- JackFr 5y agoMany wealthy, elite white men predominantly from the northeast United States. (Yes I know 40 years in they expanded the study to some local inner city subjects.)
- jimbokun 5y agoStill, it's probably the best study of its kind ever performed. Will be interesting to see if there are differences for other demographics as they continue to expand the scope of the subjects. But will need to wait decades for those results.