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What they are really saying is "It was fun (going to the bar/playing video games/whatever) with you when we were young, but I'm not young anymore and have a fam
by willcipriano 5y ago
What they are really saying is "It was fun (going to the bar/playing video games/whatever) with you when we were young, but I'm not young anymore and have a family to spend time with, I wish you had one too so I could invite you to family oriented activities." but knowing that you won't understand they say they are too busy and tired.
- deberon 5y agoI still like to do all those things as a parent! But I AM too busy and tired to do it impromptu.
- yoyohello13 5y agoYou can invite people without kids to family oriented activities too. Maybe they would enjoy just hanging out with people.
- willcipriano 5y agoIt really depends on the friend I suppose, I wasn't in a place to do all that many family friendly things before having kids personally.
- jokethrowaway 5y agoIt can also just be an excuse and they don't want to hang out with you. The reason I started thinking about having a family is that I was done with partying. The idea of going out for drinks doesn't sound too appealing, but it's the popular thing to say