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There is nothing wrong with a comfort zone, life is too short really to spend long periods of time in brutal discomfort. Some people ruin their lives this way t
by xwdv 5y ago
There is nothing wrong with a comfort zone, life is too short really to spend long periods of time in brutal discomfort. Some people ruin their lives this way to the point where it will be impossible to ever be comfortable again before they die.
- _rpxe 5y agoThat's really bad advice for people who are naturally very fragile, have social anxiety or can't deal with confrontation. Unless they start dealing with the feeling of discomfort, they will either suffer their entire life or just reinforce bad habits like avoidance, procrastination, delusion and drug addictions. Lots of people ruin their lives like that.
- xwdv 5y agoThose people are not in a comfort zone, their entire life is discomfort, they just don’t know anything else. They need to move into the comfort zone or their lives will always be ruined.
- drjasonharrison 5y agoI feel that you are possibly jumping to conclusions as to what constitutes a "good life" versus a "ruined life". If people who have "small" comfort zones need support to move outside of them. Throwing categories such as avoidance, procrastination, delusion, and drug addiction into the same group leads me to believe that you might not understand what these supports look like.