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This is the best comment here. The most successful children in elementary school are the ones who have gone through those social conflicts in preschool and work
by mark242 5y ago
This is the best comment here. The most successful children in elementary school are the ones who have gone through those social conflicts in preschool and worked things out for themselves. Sometimes that means mental conflict, sometimes that means not engaging with your peers and then having to forgive, barter, trade, etc.
- MattRix 5y agoSometimes that means kids being bullied and having that affect them quite strongly. Not actually a great idea.
- cecilpl2 5y agoSometimes that means being beaten up for fun, or having your belongings stolen or destroyed, or being the victim of power games. It's a great way to learn some deeply ingrained life lessons like "all of my peers are out to hurt me" and "I can't truly trust anyone who claims to be my friend". Those are pretty difficult to root out and persist into adulthood.
- Aeolun 5y agoSometimes that means being fucked up mentally and physically while the adults in your life look on, making excuses. Yeah, that’s a recipe for success.