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My fear when I was young was that women for the most part really would rather not, but just put up with it because it was sort of required if you wanted to part
by commandlinefan 5y ago
My fear when I was young was that women for the most part really would rather not, but just put up with it because it was sort of required if you wanted to participate in the married and had kids portion of civilization.
The older I get, the more I suspect I was probably right.
- seneca 5y agoI can assure you, that is absolutely not the case for most women, though it may be for some. Women are perfectly capable of enjoying sex.
- globular-toast 5y agoAll women want sex, but they probably don't want sex with you. This is the biggest difference that people need to understand. Most men would have sex with most women. Most women would not have sex with most men. Even men in the top 10% of attractiveness can easily find women who won't have sex with them. Meanwhile women in the top 50% of attractiveness can effortlessly find men who will have sex with them.
- zozbot234 5y agoThey're also perfectly capable of not enjoying it. It's not altogether uncommon for women to experience a complete lack of sex drive and even active aversion to it, of a sort that most men (asexuals aside, ofc.) would only personally associate to some flu-like sickness or malaise. It's hardly fair to only point to those who are talking about wanting more, when just as many are saying the very opposite!
- staticman2 5y agoI can imagine believing this before the internet, but it really isn't hard to find women online talking about how they are upset their partner doesn't want to have sex with them as much as they want to have sex.