Instead of pointing out why I think something is wrong I just starting asking questions dancing around the subject. A lot of times it comes down to just getting

Instead of pointing out why I think something is wrong I just starting asking questions dancing around the subject. A lot of times it comes down to just getting to "What problem are we trying to solve here?" Many times the original person might have made some small assumption and then that filters down and causes the current situation to be "wrong". Or maybe I am making the wrong assumption and I simply need to understand what the problem is, at its simplest, that we are all working together to find a solution for.