> take advantage You are assuming that these hypothetical "south east Asian women" are being exploited due to their contrast with "white men" i.e.: - They are

> take advantage You are assuming that these hypothetical "south east Asian women" are being exploited due to their contrast with "white men" i.e.: - They are not white - They are women And they are being exploited solely because of these factors. This is both racist and sexist, which is just entirely a bad starting point for a view of the world. Everyone that you speak of has agency and makes choices. Perhaps you feel one side has been coerced, but frankly I do not see it from what you've pointed out here. All I see is people using the agency they have to make life choices that they think are best. That's a good thing.