I run my own server, I am talking to some friends on https://jabber.fr https://jabber.fr and I refer non-technical people (family, mostly) to https://quicksy.im

I run my own server, I am talking to some friends on https://jabber.fr https://jabber.fr and I refer non-technical people (family, mostly) to https://quicksy.im https://quicksy.im. (I will add that Jitsi Meet kind of counts as Jabber use, although not in the traditional sense)