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> and from my experience it's often the mother. I'm not trying to downplay the role of positive male role models and their impact No, that is exactly what you
by jimbokun 5y ago
> and from my experience it's often the mother. I'm not trying to downplay the role of positive male role models and their impact
No, that is exactly what you are doing.
All the available evidence shows boys, especially, do less well across the board when raised without a father in the home.
- fiftyfifty 5y agoI'm not disagreeing with your point, but I don't think this entire trend can be blamed on a lack of fathers. I'm fortunate now that I coach at a school in a pretty affluent community, the vast majority of the kids I coach have married parents with active fathers in the house. I still see many of these young men fairly checked out by high school. I think in many of these cases boys are over protected these days, they grow up without the freedom to explore and test themselves and their parents create an environment where it's OK not to try or put forth an honest effort or finish your commitments etc. Years ago I coached at an inner city school, lots of single moms, I've seen the results first hand. I'd like to think for many of those kids I was a positive male role model, maybe one of the only ones in their life. Unfortunately I don't live in that area anymore.