you need a therapist, not a bunch of strangers on the internet. but as long as you’re asking, the one thing i can pick up from your post and comments is that y

you need a therapist, not a bunch of strangers on the internet. but as long as you’re asking, the one thing i can pick up from your post and comments is that you seem to be doing a lot of thinking for her instead of letting her figure her own stuff out. maybe she doesn’t want kids either. maybe she wants the same stuff you do. or not. you don’t really know because you’re not talking to her about this. go find a marriage therapist and work this stuff out there. then find an individual therapist for after it’s done.