I don't equate men in the field of computing as cutey pies because I don't find men cute. How does thinking someone is cute make her accomplishments not equal

I don't equate men in the field of computing as cutey pies because I don't find men cute. How does thinking someone is cute make her accomplishments not equal to men? To me your looks and your accomplishments are completely independent. Your accomplishments stand on their own, regardless of how you look. I think you are overreacting somewhat.