> have no respect for me but as long as i had control over the product Is this actually about the colors, or is it really about you needing to have control and

> have no respect for me but as long as i had control over the product Is this actually about the colors, or is it really about you needing to have control and be heard? As a number of people have pointed out, you can fix the color problem with some configuration options, or introducing themes. That could actually improve the product too, "dark mode" is all the rage these days, etc. Your situation seems to boil down to a few questionable assumptions: * everyone needs to be using and seeing the same colors * you need to have some control, input, or veto power over what those colors are That's not a good way to operate. What would you do if someone else with your same level of sensitivity to colors and shapes joined the team, only they were triggered by your favorite colors, and insisted on switching to the colors that trigger you?