> You might tell a friend “you’re a 10” but when was the last time you told someone you respect “you’re ugly.” Once a year? Men and Women don't have as big a p

> You might tell a friend “you’re a 10” but when was the last time you told someone you respect “you’re ugly.” Once a year? Men and Women don't have as big a problem with this as you might think, because relative unattractiveness is not talked about casually. Especially when someone is dating, relative attractiveness comes up regularly. You tend to have honest discussions with people you respect.