Adding to what bradlys has written. If we can fix the system, then no 'hopelessness' may anymore be involved. That's what we need to push for. As of now, the

Adding to what bradlys has written. If we can fix the system, then no 'hopelessness' may anymore be involved. That's what we need to push for. As of now, the system for broken marriages is hopelessly bad. My advice to all would be that even when in a good marriage, to the extent you can, don't make choices that would make the end of it hopeless for you.