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> people hate admitting being wrong This is projection. There are multiple modes of approaching communication and not everyone uses the mode where communicatio

• acdha 5y ago
  Can you explain why you think that's projection, or one-upmanship? The point wasn't even about communication but how people rationalize the decisions they make — offering people ways to change without admitting fault is a pretty common strategy in many contexts.
  • unanswered 5y ago
    It's projection because you may hate being wrong, but some people like learning the truth no matter what they believed before. I guess you can continue to deny this kind of person exists; but it doesn't really matter what you think.
    • acdha 5y ago
      Note that I said “admitting” — I personally do prefer becoming more correct over time but it's hardly a novel suggestion that most people do not enjoy having to retract a previous public position. This is everywhere in society from casual use of terms like “saving face” to work by psychologists, economists, etc. on how to support people making better choices rather than being ruled by the sunk cost of past decisions. This is why public retractions have such weight: even people who like being right don't enjoy that part of the process. This isn't about treating communication as a contest with only one winner but rather about the subjective feeling of the person making these decisions. Having built it up into a big deal increased the costs of reversal but the mandate changes the dynamic and gives them the option of saying the choice was no longer theirs — if they get vaccinated, that's a better outcome for everyone even if they never admit the bad call.