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It's a skill that can be learned.
by baobabKoodaa 5y ago
It's a skill that can be learned.
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- CyberDildonics 5y agoYou are absolutely right but you will never be able to convince anyone here that this is true.
- rubyist5eva 5y ago100%, I still remember all of my epic failures when I started learning it!
- paulryanrogers 5y agoSkill is certainly involved, as are sometimes crushing demographics. I grew up in churches that taught one to only date non-Catholic Christians. In the area those were rare, especially single ones my age. Then everyone has deal breakers further reducing the pool of possible candidates. I learned to be less picky but still had to travel about 50 miles away and only made 2 successful matches (i.e. second date) over 5y.