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That approach for most folks is a) really daunting b) usually extremely low odds of success. It's one thing if it's someone in a social circle, however big. To
by kortex 5y ago
That approach for most folks is a) really daunting b) usually extremely low odds of success.
It's one thing if it's someone in a social circle, however big. Total stranger? Seems to only result in frustration for most folks.
- baobabKoodaa 5y agoIt's a skill that can be learned.
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- CyberDildonics 5y agoYou are absolutely right but you will never be able to convince anyone here that this is true.
- rubyist5eva 5y ago100%, I still remember all of my epic failures when I started learning it!
- paulryanrogers 5y agoSkill is certainly involved, as are sometimes crushing demographics. I grew up in churches that taught one to only date non-Catholic Christians. In the area those were rare, especially single ones my age. Then everyone has deal breakers further reducing the pool of possible candidates. I learned to be less picky but still had to travel about 50 miles away and only made 2 successful matches (i.e. second date) over 5y.
- kerng 5y agoThe odds of success are probably higher then using one of the now common dating apps.