I have someone who reviews some of my work and will tell me how great my work is then points out all the changes they want made -- it's clear nothing about the

I have someone who reviews some of my work and will tell me how great my work is then points out all the changes they want made -- it's clear nothing about the work is what they wanted, so the "well done with ..." just feels like being gas-lighted. In this case, however, I don't think they realise they're doing it.