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Some of the stuff they did to her was so creepy, like trying to get her to eat at this restaurant, then when she got there, paying for her $300 dinner, and then
by rdtsc 5y ago
Some of the stuff they did to her was so creepy, like trying to get her to eat at this restaurant, then when she got there, paying for her $300 dinner, and then pressuring her to date the sous-chef.
Then, in another incident, attacked her with a "surprise" nerf gun ambush, recorded her screams and then turned them into a remix and shared it with everyone. Even after she told them she has PTSD from past physical violence. Were those people ever reprimanded? It seems like they haven't.
The nerf gun email exchange was a bit odd though, it read as though she is joking and playing along. If I had read just that email chain, without the rest of the context, her saying stuff like "I need to out mischief them - hide or boobytrap their toys maybe", might be interpreted as something more benign. But, it's worth acknowledging that it would be hard to go against the grain, even though saying something like "what they are doing is disruptive, ask them to stop" might have had a better effect.
- dekhn 5y agoyou're taking her words at face value. don't. she is taking events and reinterpreting them to sound super-favorable to her.
- rdtsc 5y agoWell that's why I highlighted the odd tone in the email. The other odd thing was the "Make Ashley's Life a Living Hell" ticket screenshot. It looks incredibly bad, but then she replies on the ticket which can be perceived as playing along. I understand that victims sometimes cope that way, by pretending to go along, hoping the abuse would stop, but at the same time, it makes it harder to convince others later how bad things were.