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"They then asked me about a time where I disagreed with a superior and how I handled the situation" "I told them that every situation is different and that to
by buff-a 15y ago
"They then asked me about a time where I disagreed with a superior and how I handled the situation"
"I told them that every situation is different and that to me... there's no one right answer."
I would have made the same mistake right out of college. The right answer would have been to "tell them about a time where you disagreed with a superior and how you handled the situation."
The question was not designed to produce a report on how you handle disagreements with superiors. It was not even designed to see if you could follow instructions like a lemming.
I suggest you look the real reason you didn't want to give an answer: the fear that it would be the wrong answer. The fear that these people would listen to how you handled a single situation and determine from that single data point whether or not you are suitable for a job. So the answer you gave them was "I don't want to give you an answer because I believe you to be short sighted fools who have no experience of human relationships and will therefore judge me by this one answer".
The question was designed a) to start a discussion on interactions with superiors and b) to determine your level of fear of giving a wrong answer in an interact with superiors.
Instead, you had a disagreement with your superiors-to-be about the quality of their question and demonstrated that in such situations your response is to be defensive and provide no information, instead of getting the ball rolling.
- joe_the_user 15y agoWow, This is a good information on a pretty sinister approach.... Essentially, ask someone bad question and see if they squirm. Now I understand... Yes, I'll keep this is mind...
- Bootvis 15y agoIsn't that just an example of the widely used STAR[1] question? AFAIK these are very common. [1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Situation,_Task,_Action,_Result http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Situation,_Task,_Action,_Result