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Several commenters on this post claim this is an issue of safety: "The ability to add nicknames/maiden names etc is of no use to people who actually need to ke

by edash 15y ago

Several commenters on this post claim this is an issue of safety: "The ability to add nicknames/maiden names etc is of no use to people who actually need to keep their identity secret for their own or their family's safety." "There are plenty of perfectly legitimate reasons for someone to need, not just want, to use pseudonym." I'm sorry, but you don't need to use Google+. And for the love of Peter please don't if you'll endanger yourself or your family. Wanting to remain anonymous on Google+ is like going to a dinner party and insisting on wearing a mask. Yes, you'll reduce the chance that people will know who you are—but you're also super freakin' creepy. If you don't want to be recognized...stay home or go to another party! And if you don't want to share your real identity online, I'd recommend not using social networks altogether.

rmrm 15y ago
or, for these particular people -- just use a fake name. Not starpony76, but Mike Jones or Jane Smith. Google does not need to allow starpony76 to allow you to be Mike Jones or Jane Smith. They will happily allow you to be perfectly safe as Jane Smith. Conversely, don't post anything publicly and lock down your profile. My profile on G+ has my name. That's it. If someone "found" me on G+, they find my name. If they are stalking me, they already know my name I would guess. They won't get anything else unless I choose to give it to them. Which is broadly similiar to me choosing to email something to them. Don't message your stalker! There are plenty of good positive reasons in the "pro" camp for allowing any kind of name someone wants to call themselves, including starpony76. But there are also plenty of good reasons to oppose it. Like not having a network filled with ridiculous spammy, crude, borderline offensive names just (primarily) because people like being clever.
- saurik 15y ago
  If you don't like someone's name, you don't have to circle them, and you can always block them if they insist on commenting on your public posts (which they probably won't be doing anyway). (Oh, and if they are spam, please report them as spam: Google cares a lot about ridding spam, and that is an entirely separate issue from "starpony76".)
  - rmrm 15y ago
    Every single thread I read at G+ would be filled with their names, its not my public posts I'm worried about -- it quite possibly destroys the value of everyone elses public posts for me. There would be no escape from it, I am not going to block every SEO EXPERT XChange, Mr Piddles, Big Johnson, L33tB0Y username that would innundate every well known and heavily followed G+ user. I'll just get annoyed instead. I am not comparing the trauma of tasteless names everywhere to being stalked -- but it would quite possible keep me from wanting to use the site. Along with a lot of other people. Which also has the effect of causing the person you are talking about not wanting to use it, either. Any name you want was allowed for Buzz, and was certainly a turn off.
    - saurik 15y ago
      Is this a common complaint about Twitter? I have never heard this as the reason someone won't use Twitter: the argument seems to come from a minority of users who come out of the woodwork to back services like Google+ during issues like this. (In essence, I find it interesting that you chose to pull Buzz as your first-line example, despite the fact that Buzz failed for all kinds of other reasons against a competitor that seems to have no trouble with an "any name goes" policy.)
      - rmrm 15y ago
        I don't know what a common complaint is against Twitter. But Google+ shares Buzzes stream/comment structure exactly -- in that comments on a post are heavily highlighted and constantly thrust in front of you. I don't just follow X, I follow X+ whoever comments on his posts, and my stream is very highly reactive to those comments. Twitter does not work like G+ does. G+ does however work exactly like Buzz does in this respect (for public posts). I consider myself a fairly regular guy, and yes the naming (among other things, but the ridiculous names of people I'm not following, specifically) annoyed me to no end on Buzz. So yes, considering G+ is a Buzz clone when it comes to public posts and comments -- it will annoy me on G+, and I assume I'm not alone. Buzz is the most perfect first-line example that exists.
saurik 15y ago
Ok, so when someone is being stalked by someone they simply don't get to use the Internet anymore. I guess that really was a pretty clean solution: deleting them from modern society and isolating them from the friends and support groups they rely on, and telling them that they certainly shouldn't tell other people about their problems or oppressions in public, does quite rapidly sweep that whole issue under the rug. Wish I had thought of that one...
- rglullis 15y ago
  What kind of support is that, when it can only be provided by a service that is not even one month old? The way you put it, it makes it sound as the only possible way for people to reach out privately to others in their trusted circle is through their computers/smartphones. The OP is right. If privacy/concern of safety is so important to some people, they should re-evaluate their need for this product.
  - saurik 15y ago
    The OP has made a general claim about /all social networks/, not just G+. In some cases his sentences specifically state "Google+", but none of the arguments are Google+ specific, and his comment ends with an explicitly general recommendation.
- MatthewPhillips 15y ago
  > Ok, so when someone is being stalked by someone they simply don't get to use the Internet anymore. Google+ != the internet.
- tbh2347 15y ago
  I hope you realize that you can fine tune every bit of your profile to hide sensitive information (and show it to the right circles). The stalker would only be able to see that [someone] has a Google+ profile...
  - saurik 15y ago
    The goal should be that people who are being stalked, which could be anyone (and frankly will probably be me soon: I already get the occasional death threat), should be able to participate in discussions on important subjects (possibly about death threats and stalking online) /in public/ without divulging their identity. The person I responded to seems to claim that people in that situation should simply give up: that social networks are simply not an option for them. To me that is as damaging to society as claiming that people who can't see shouldn't be attempting to use a computer, as "duh: they can't see it or read anything or stuff".
thristian 15y ago
For some people (not me), this is an issue of safety; I somewhat agree with you that people who genuinely need to protect their identity from The Internets might be better off not using social networking. There are some corner-cases, like famous people who want to be online to communicate with their fans, and with their families, but don't want their families to have to deal with unwanted publicity, but the number of people in the world who are that famous is very small. For me, the bigger issue is correctness: through various quirks of history, different groups of people know me by different, unrelated names, and I'd like my friends to be able to recognise me as we encounter each other in this new medium. Pseudonymity is a different thing to anonymity.
nextparadigms 15y ago
I just don't understand why people are so against Google over this, when Facebook has always been doing it. I know it's a delicate issue and it deserves debate, but at least I'd like the issue being discussed in a more general setting. That being said, I think it would be another advantage of Google+ over Facebook to allow people to use pseudonyms, because it's yet another thing Facebook would never change.
- esrauch 15y ago
  I think pseudonyms might have the same problem that too much customization over myspace profiles drove people to facebook; people are stupid and don't do what is best for them. More customization of profiles has probably been the #1 request on facebook since it's inception and they have deliberately not launched it, which ends up being what the people actually want despite what they think they want. Everyone wants to be able to set their profile to their favorite color and have their favorite song autoplay, but no one wants to see other peoples crappy color schemes or hear their music that you don't like. Lots of people want to have some random name on Google+ but people don't want to interact with a bunch of people named "vagtastic" or "bluntzzz".
- frossie 15y ago
  I just don't understand why people are so against Google over this, when Facebook has always been doing it. Because we wouldn't be interested in Google+ if we thought it would just be another Facebook? I mean, if the fresh launch of a beta product to an audience of mainly tech-savvy users is not the time to complain loudly about what you don't you like, what is?
  - joe_the_user 15y ago
    Yes, I'd been rooting for Google, against Facebook on this. Till now.. But now... The thing is that Facebook so far mostly has just made noise about not allowing pseudonyms - I've only seen them ban obvious organizations from using individual accounts and then only when someone complains. If you're locked out of your Facebook account, you have to show state ID. But it's a lot easier to just another "fake" account (which is not really particular fake if it is you representing you). I'm in a somewhat "special" neck of the woods on Facebook but I'd say more than half my friends use pseudonyms on there. If all of those got banned, we'd move elsewhere. That might be a good thing. But we sure wouldn't move to G+.
sixtofour 15y ago
"but you're also super freakin' creepy" There is nothing creepy about being anonymous on the Internet. It was the default mode since the time when one user couldn't keep track of all the Internet users in his head. Until now I have always been anonymous unless I specifically chose otherwise. That's not creepy, it's normal.
- mike_esspe 15y ago
  You are clearly from internet of 90s :) Unfortunately current trend is against pseudonyms. Lately I'm often encountering people who are genuinely surprised that I don't use my legal name.
  - sixtofour 15y ago
    Actually before the 90s.

by edash 15y ago

rmrm 15y ago

or, for these particular people -- just use a fake name. Not starpony76, but Mike Jones or Jane Smith. Google does not need to allow starpony76 to allow you to be Mike Jones or Jane Smith. They will happily allow you to be perfectly safe as Jane Smith. Conversely, don't post anything publicly and lock down your profile. My profile on G+ has my name. That's it. If someone "found" me on G+, they find my name. If they are stalking me, they already know my name I would guess. They won't get anything else unless I choose to give it to them. Which is broadly similiar to me choosing to email something to them. Don't message your stalker! There are plenty of good positive reasons in the "pro" camp for allowing any kind of name someone wants to call themselves, including starpony76. But there are also plenty of good reasons to oppose it. Like not having a network filled with ridiculous spammy, crude, borderline offensive names just (primarily) because people like being clever.

saurik 15y ago
If you don't like someone's name, you don't have to circle them, and you can always block them if they insist on commenting on your public posts (which they probably won't be doing anyway). (Oh, and if they are spam, please report them as spam: Google cares a lot about ridding spam, and that is an entirely separate issue from "starpony76".)
- rmrm 15y ago
  Every single thread I read at G+ would be filled with their names, its not my public posts I'm worried about -- it quite possibly destroys the value of everyone elses public posts for me. There would be no escape from it, I am not going to block every SEO EXPERT XChange, Mr Piddles, Big Johnson, L33tB0Y username that would innundate every well known and heavily followed G+ user. I'll just get annoyed instead. I am not comparing the trauma of tasteless names everywhere to being stalked -- but it would quite possible keep me from wanting to use the site. Along with a lot of other people. Which also has the effect of causing the person you are talking about not wanting to use it, either. Any name you want was allowed for Buzz, and was certainly a turn off.
  - saurik 15y ago
    Is this a common complaint about Twitter? I have never heard this as the reason someone won't use Twitter: the argument seems to come from a minority of users who come out of the woodwork to back services like Google+ during issues like this. (In essence, I find it interesting that you chose to pull Buzz as your first-line example, despite the fact that Buzz failed for all kinds of other reasons against a competitor that seems to have no trouble with an "any name goes" policy.)
    - rmrm 15y ago
      I don't know what a common complaint is against Twitter. But Google+ shares Buzzes stream/comment structure exactly -- in that comments on a post are heavily highlighted and constantly thrust in front of you. I don't just follow X, I follow X+ whoever comments on his posts, and my stream is very highly reactive to those comments. Twitter does not work like G+ does. G+ does however work exactly like Buzz does in this respect (for public posts). I consider myself a fairly regular guy, and yes the naming (among other things, but the ridiculous names of people I'm not following, specifically) annoyed me to no end on Buzz. So yes, considering G+ is a Buzz clone when it comes to public posts and comments -- it will annoy me on G+, and I assume I'm not alone. Buzz is the most perfect first-line example that exists.

saurik 15y ago

Ok, so when someone is being stalked by someone they simply don't get to use the Internet anymore. I guess that really was a pretty clean solution: deleting them from modern society and isolating them from the friends and support groups they rely on, and telling them that they certainly shouldn't tell other people about their problems or oppressions in public, does quite rapidly sweep that whole issue under the rug. Wish I had thought of that one...

rglullis 15y ago
What kind of support is that, when it can only be provided by a service that is not even one month old? The way you put it, it makes it sound as the only possible way for people to reach out privately to others in their trusted circle is through their computers/smartphones. The OP is right. If privacy/concern of safety is so important to some people, they should re-evaluate their need for this product.
- saurik 15y ago
  The OP has made a general claim about /all social networks/, not just G+. In some cases his sentences specifically state "Google+", but none of the arguments are Google+ specific, and his comment ends with an explicitly general recommendation.
MatthewPhillips 15y ago
> Ok, so when someone is being stalked by someone they simply don't get to use the Internet anymore. Google+ != the internet.
tbh2347 15y ago
I hope you realize that you can fine tune every bit of your profile to hide sensitive information (and show it to the right circles). The stalker would only be able to see that [someone] has a Google+ profile...
- saurik 15y ago
  The goal should be that people who are being stalked, which could be anyone (and frankly will probably be me soon: I already get the occasional death threat), should be able to participate in discussions on important subjects (possibly about death threats and stalking online) /in public/ without divulging their identity. The person I responded to seems to claim that people in that situation should simply give up: that social networks are simply not an option for them. To me that is as damaging to society as claiming that people who can't see shouldn't be attempting to use a computer, as "duh: they can't see it or read anything or stuff".

thristian 15y ago

For some people (not me), this is an issue of safety; I somewhat agree with you that people who genuinely need to protect their identity from The Internets might be better off not using social networking. There are some corner-cases, like famous people who want to be online to communicate with their fans, and with their families, but don't want their families to have to deal with unwanted publicity, but the number of people in the world who are that famous is very small. For me, the bigger issue is correctness: through various quirks of history, different groups of people know me by different, unrelated names, and I'd like my friends to be able to recognise me as we encounter each other in this new medium. Pseudonymity is a different thing to anonymity.

nextparadigms 15y ago

I just don't understand why people are so against Google over this, when Facebook has always been doing it. I know it's a delicate issue and it deserves debate, but at least I'd like the issue being discussed in a more general setting. That being said, I think it would be another advantage of Google+ over Facebook to allow people to use pseudonyms, because it's yet another thing Facebook would never change.

esrauch 15y ago
I think pseudonyms might have the same problem that too much customization over myspace profiles drove people to facebook; people are stupid and don't do what is best for them. More customization of profiles has probably been the #1 request on facebook since it's inception and they have deliberately not launched it, which ends up being what the people actually want despite what they think they want. Everyone wants to be able to set their profile to their favorite color and have their favorite song autoplay, but no one wants to see other peoples crappy color schemes or hear their music that you don't like. Lots of people want to have some random name on Google+ but people don't want to interact with a bunch of people named "vagtastic" or "bluntzzz".
frossie 15y ago
I just don't understand why people are so against Google over this, when Facebook has always been doing it. Because we wouldn't be interested in Google+ if we thought it would just be another Facebook? I mean, if the fresh launch of a beta product to an audience of mainly tech-savvy users is not the time to complain loudly about what you don't you like, what is?
- joe_the_user 15y ago
  Yes, I'd been rooting for Google, against Facebook on this. Till now.. But now... The thing is that Facebook so far mostly has just made noise about not allowing pseudonyms - I've only seen them ban obvious organizations from using individual accounts and then only when someone complains. If you're locked out of your Facebook account, you have to show state ID. But it's a lot easier to just another "fake" account (which is not really particular fake if it is you representing you). I'm in a somewhat "special" neck of the woods on Facebook but I'd say more than half my friends use pseudonyms on there. If all of those got banned, we'd move elsewhere. That might be a good thing. But we sure wouldn't move to G+.

sixtofour 15y ago

"but you're also super freakin' creepy" There is nothing creepy about being anonymous on the Internet. It was the default mode since the time when one user couldn't keep track of all the Internet users in his head. Until now I have always been anonymous unless I specifically chose otherwise. That's not creepy, it's normal.

mike_esspe 15y ago
You are clearly from internet of 90s :) Unfortunately current trend is against pseudonyms. Lately I'm often encountering people who are genuinely surprised that I don't use my legal name.
- sixtofour 15y ago
  Actually before the 90s.