"Bad things happened to me and nobody talked about that so why should people talk to you just because bad things happened to you too" is not enlightened rationa

"Bad things happened to me and nobody talked about that so why should people talk to you just because bad things happened to you too" is not enlightened rationality, it's just spite. It actually sounds like you have been the victim of injustices but feel disgust towards other victims of injustices because you don't want to be thought of as a victim. This is a perfectly normal reaction, but you might want to talk to a therapist. I'm not saying this to insult you. Mental health is a seriously overlooked issue and many people avoid seeking professional help because they don't want to be seen as vulnerable, even if it ruins their lives. EDIT: Interesting that someone would read the first paragraph and conclude that I'm talking about personal beliefs. Or accusing me of calling people "mentally ill", which literally reinforces my point of people avoiding therapy for its stigma.