> She's unwilling to do programming interviews > she's unwilling to take advice > She's been unwilling to try things > How can she overcome this hurdle? It

> She's unwilling to do programming interviews > she's unwilling to take advice > She's been unwilling to try things > How can she overcome this hurdle? It should be obvious but if someone's not willing to change, they won't change. If it were me, I would probably stop trying to help her. It seems like she's even made that clear to you "she's unwilling to take advice from...me" I know it's probably not what you wanted to hear.