I like everything about Postgres except how arcane it is. It feels like 1980s Unix software, and everything about it is manual. It seems like there are multiple

I like everything about Postgres except how arcane it is. It feels like 1980s Unix software, and everything about it is manual. It seems like there are multiple ways to do many things and I never feel like I am sure I am doing it the "right" way (as in both correct and modern and what you should do). I've been watching CockroachDB as a more modern alternative that can auto-scale easily, do master/master easily, etc. Those are all painful on Postgres to the point that hosted and managed pgsql is a cash cow for cloud vendors.