My 2020 Intel Macbook Air crashes every single time it falls asleep while attached to an internal monitor, on Catalina and Big Sur I have just accepted it, on

My 2020 Intel Macbook Air crashes every single time it falls asleep while attached to an internal monitor, on Catalina and Big Sur I have just accepted it, on a personal computer I am less likely to need to keep a ton of things open so it's okay if I lose all my windows on crash. On a work computer I would not be able to accept this - thankfully my work 2018 MBP on Catalina handles this fine. I previously had an Ubuntu Dell XPS at work with a similar problem and it was horrible losing my tabs and terminal windows 4-5x per work day