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Kids don’t know if something is good, bad, weird or whatever until they’re told. If you are fine not wearing clothes, and do it in your home, your kids wont thi
by JimBlackwood 6y ago
Kids don’t know if something is good, bad, weird or whatever until they’re told. If you are fine not wearing clothes, and do it in your home, your kids wont think anything of it.
- refurb 6y agoNot true. It’s not uncommon for a toddler to find a private place to defecate without being told. There is an innate sense of a need for privacy for some things.
- chromanoid 6y agoA private place is often a good idea, so predators wont eat you when you are so vulnerable. There are many places where nakedness is the norm and the naked people will probably still search for private places when defecating.
- kgwgk 6y agoIt's also not uncommon for toddlers to masturbate in public. I don't know how much can be inferred about innate privacy concerns from these behaviours.
- petr25102018 6y agoBut isn't this just an instinct not to defecate at the place where he/she plays and spends time? How can you be so sure that it is about privacy?
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- torgian 6y agoI will now point you towards mainland China, where kids as old as 90 will shit in the streets. I’m not kidding either (although this is changing in the larger cities.... slowly)
- refurb 6y agoThat’s learned behavior.
- airhead969 6y agoYeap. I've seen this. People who pee or poo wherever they're at.
- pbhjpbhj 6y agoAre you sure that's not learned behaviour? I've only ever seen it in older kids. I'd hypothesise it follows "expert" advise that suggests what I consider very late potty training.
- refurb 6y agoWell consider 1 year olds will do it (my daughter did it when wearing diapers) even though we have no indication it was needed.
- pbhjpbhj 6y agoI've spent time around more babies & toddlers than most people see in a lifetime (sometimes >50 per day; probably no more than 2000 per year though; for >decade; [working at baby & toddler groups]). Could you say if this was a fixed behaviour (ie they always sought a private place to poop), had a fixed location (eg always behind the couch), if you used a potty at the time, and exactly which month it appeared at so I can note it with my own observations. Cheers.
- airhead969 6y agoYes. Kids are taught to be ashamed of their bodies by their parents and society. And then teenagers are taught to be ashamed of sex. Some societies inculcate even more shame than others.
- Cthulhu_ 6y agoIt's one tactic to try and avoid them 'accidentally' having sex at a young age (and getting pregnant and everything). I can kind of see everything, I mean on the one side sex ed is important, but if they can avoid attempting it for a few years until they're more well-rounded individuals it'll be a double bonus. Mind you, I've very much been a late bloomer so my perspective is probably not representative.