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Drop the kids of at school/daycare/grandparents - come back home :).

• steve_adams_86 6y ago
  That’s not an option for many (most?) people
• tw04 6y ago
  >Drop the kids of at school/daycare So, while we're both working? >grandparents One is on the other side of the country, the other is 2 hours away. So... sex three days a year?
  • germinalphrase 6y ago
    Do you assume the child never sleeps? Even co-sleeping, our son would go to sleep before us (either staying in the bed on the floor or being transferred to a crib). There can be other places in the home to be intimate.
    • tw04 6y ago
      >Do you assume the child never sleeps? Even co-sleeping, our son would go to sleep before us (either staying in the bed on the floor or being transferred to a crib). There can be other places in the home to be intimate. I assume that banging in the kitchen is a fun adventure sometimes, but I'd prefer to do it in my bed most of the time. And accusing me of being "oddly focused on the individual" is both wildly inaccurate and quite frankly a lazy attempt at trying to explain why people want privacy. On this site, of all places, I'd expect better.
      • germinalphrase 6y ago
        I make no such accusation. I merely point out that a child in the bedroom is less of an impediment than might be thought.
  • tibbydudeza 6y ago
    Well fortunately toddlers are natural libido killers - it is probably an additional protection mechanism along with the hormones controlling lactation to prevent you from becoming parents again so soon :). You are just so tired the first few months catching up on sleep.
• madcaptenor 6y ago
  This is harder these days. I remember hearing some speculation early in the pandemic that there would be a lot of first children coming out of it but very few second or greater children. The data on this should be starting to come out now.
  • tibbydudeza 6y ago
    I wonder how it will affect the divorce rate as well.