As others mention, consider if you want kids or not. It is much more difficult to keep up (physically and mentally) with a 3 year old at 50ish than at 30ish.

As others mention, consider if you want kids or not. It is much more difficult to keep up (physically and mentally) with a 3 year old at 50ish than at 30ish. If you do want it, it's a kind of trap[1] to delay because "the time is not right". It may never be "right", since it is a life changing event. [1] - except in extreme circumstances, of course.